Friends


Do you have friends? I guess everyone has them.
I have few friends, the rest are aquaintances.
Pal, is my best friend, my solmate. And there are a few other good friends, or so I thought.
Turns out, they are jealous.
Apparently, I take pal away from them, regardless of the fact that:
A: I’ve known her longer and
B: her friendship with them is on a completely different level than mine.

I don’t complain when she spends time with them, they’ve got kids the same age, they have joint interests, different to mine and that’s fine because I don’t own her, nor is it the other way round.

We are safe in the knowledge that we are the bestes of pals and we can still have other friends.

Why is it then that if we want to do something together and a very good friend wants to join uns but can’t because she has to work, words are twisted, knives are out and she acts like a total brat, trying to make us feel guilty, accusing me of being jealous, -of what I might ask?
She smiles at me and twists the knife in my back.

I feel like being back at Kindergarten, silly stupid idiots spoiling years of friendship we had, too, for what??

We do not have a perogative on anyone and the sooner people realise this, the better.

Friendship, real friendship means being there for each other, accepting each other and also accepting that friends, best ones and other ones, are not a possesion but a gift to be treasured and if they were to realise that then there would be no reason for stupid jealousy but room for more good friends.

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I am your average wife,mother,friend,employee....a bit lost in my world, a bit crazy at times but always good for a laugh - I think ;-)

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