How do you cope…

When your life falls apart around you?
I have stopped coping – I think?
My mum is still effectively pissing us off from far away-she misses my dad -rubbish!!!
Note: no mentioning of her children and grandchildren -no mentioning of us or my dad for that matter on her jappy site
( did I mention that I found her password alongside my brother’s ripped up birth certificate in the old paper box ? 😉
Work is shit as per usual, the pressure is getting to me, I’ve taken leave of absence and all I hear from everywhere is: do be careful not to get the sack 😦 true, but how long can one take the pressure before one snaps?
And I have finally admitted to myself that my husband is emotionally incapable of showing feelings -great cook, dad (if he doesn’t shout), gardener, you name it but feelings,conversation…. No chance

On a positive note, my bathroom is finished, after six weeks of having been without and after completely having run out of money-just a door and cupboards missing now but hey, who needs a bathroom door anyway? 😉


I am your average wife,mother,friend,employee....a bit lost in my world, a bit crazy at times but always good for a laugh - I think ;-)

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3 comments on “How do you cope…
  1. I am sorry you are having such a tough time. I wish I could tell you what to do to make it better, but I don’t know either. Remember it is not you, but her. And forgive yourself. You’re entitled to take some time for yourself.


  2. Crappola for you. Partners are never what we need, even if they come close. The only person I know I can rely on is myself, and when I get like you are feeling right now, it is an extra burden as I cannot trust myself to do the right thing. Having said all that, you recognized that you needed to take a break from work (high five) and currently you still have the job. Forget about your mother. Or at least try. Take care of those who want you to. You are not responsible for everyone and especially not your mom. Take care of the next generation. Big hugs.


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