torn


for weeks, I´ve been meaning to post, everyday stuff or going deeper but I couldn´t.

Sounds silly, doesn´t it?

The www is amazing, interesting, it lets you look up everything, lets you look at things but it also looks inside you, your house, your life, everything.

It has never bothered me before but it does now.

Why?

Because someone very close to me got to involved, got onto silly dating sites, despite being married.

It has rocked my world, everything I believed in, it has broken up my family to an extend I´d never thought possible.

Trust, love, values it all disappears withing the click of a button.

Lies, looking into someones eyes, wanting to believe, not wanting the person to lose face and still knowing better, having proof, not wanting to think about it not wanting others to find out for fear of more damage being done.

It makes you possessed, google all the time, names, phone numbers all the while not sleeping well.

It´s taken weeks for me to put my mind at rest again, albeit it being a fragile peace.

The web is a dangerous place to be for people who don´t know how to deal with it.

 

 

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5 comments on “torn
  1. Rob Harrison says:

    I would suggest a re-frame on that Bunny. The web isn’t a dangerous place. What’s the real danger is the lack of reason and moral character. The web makes it easier for those sorts of people to find each other, but after all, the web is inert. It’s just wires and plastic and electricity and lots of i and o. And until a person engages it for their use, it cannot and will not do anything.

    I say that also when it comes to government. There is no such “thing.” Government is an idea that is acted out by people. If everyone on 10 Downing street, the House of Lords, and in the Palace, walked away to retire to the beach, what would get done today? Nothing!

    All of the actions of this world and their consequences are brought about by choices, and often without thinking about the consequences. When re-framed that way, it is easier to see where the danger, and responsibility for the choices and actions lie: with people. Until the immoral person turns on the computer, the web and internet and computer sit. If there isn’t one at all, the immorality doesn’t stop, it expresses itself some other way. Locally.

    In any event, I hold you in my prayers for now so you can act wisely yourself, and take care of yourself. Don’t forget to be compassionate either. To yourself as well as others. People make stupid choices because of reasons often associated with a lack of self-respect and other reasons, and compassion is a far better path to help them correct. Compassion is not a door mat however. Compassion can say, “You (I) need to leave this relationship at least by distance for now until you can deal with this. I want you to be better, but we cannot be together for now.” There are of course, many nuances to these situations, which is why I pray the way I do.

    • crazybunny66 says:

      Hiya Rob,

      I know, of course, that you are right in saying that it’s the person operating the computer but it still feels wrong. But thank you for your kind words, very much appreciated! For the record: it’s not my husband who’s been going “astray” 😉

  2. selfbeside says:

    I agree with your last sentence

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