take the next turn


I don´t know what possessed me to even listen to you, never mind being smitten.

You might have had a nice voice but that does not say much about the character of a person.

Let me just clarify something to you.

I don´t know you. Having exchanged a couple of mails and one telephone conversation, albeit a nice one, does not make you a friend of mine.
I just happen to stumble across your ad by accident, out of sheer boredom and I was smitten by the fact that you have a way with words.
I admit that I am heading for a turning point in life, be it good or bad, justified or completely wrong, but I never make out to be perfect, never pretend that anything I do or say is correct and most of all, I am painfully aware that anything I do or say has far-reaching consequences for the people around me, the ones I love and, no doubt, love me back (yes, my husband does love me dearly, he just can not show it).
I am not blinded enough to pretend that such consequences could be washed away by ignorance, as you are.
I will not give you the pleasure of contacting you in any way whatsoever after the way you just pretended to be “upset” about one “incorrect” wording in an overall normal and innocent e-mail of mine. I DO NOT DO silence.
If you had something to say, if you were upset, angry, hurt, whatever you name it, you could have written it outright!
As it happens, you decided to write a silly comment “Tztztztz..” and did not have the decency to explain one way or another.

Well here´s one for you mate:

It was your words I was smitten with, not you, the person. It could have been anyone, interchangeable, it would not have made any difference.
Apart from one:

Lessons learned

(and I feel much better now I got that off my chest :-))


I am your average wife,mother,friend,employee....a bit lost in my world, a bit crazy at times but always good for a laugh - I think ;-)

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