I´ve answered an ad on the net recently, I was ill and bored and ended up googling. Somehow, I kept going back to this ad, M45 seeking mail contact, bored with life, …..
I know that sounds stupid, never thought I would do this but the anonymity of the www certainly helps. And no, please note this was not an ad for someone looking for an extra-marital affair, at least not then.
The words were different, they just appealed to me because they were clearly different to all the others I´d read that day, funny in a way, but also sophisticated.
Anyway, I ended up replying, just a couple of words that I could relate to ” is this all life has to offer?” and we ended up writing, first via the website, all nicely anonymous.
Now, one has to understand that there is the need for a completely different e-mail address to the one I normally have, would not want anyone to find out who I am or where I live, God forbid.
Said and done, I was well chuffed with myself for managing to create, re-direct and use such completely anonymous e-mail address.
Hello, this is me we are talking, in the end it read xxx.@….. redirected to yes, you guessed it, my full name and private e-mail.
Technic and I just don´t match 😉
Still, he thought it was quite funny and in the end and just so that I felt I could trust him, I got his address, phone number, job and picture to prove it. (I won´t disclose what job or how it was proven).
We have been writing ever since, every day, all the time.
Where does adultery start, in the head or with the deed?
I don´t know and I don´t like to think about it, not yet anyway!!